Plus, do you really want to be known as the person who broke up with their loved one on Valentine's Day?
There's a communication tactic that I find incredibly useful in tense situations. Bob Huizenga, Psychotherapist, and the author of the "Break Free from the Affair" e Book.
It might not be the answer you were looking for, but being an adult about breaking up means facing your situation and decision head on.
Your partner deserves to hear it from you personally that you're no longer interested in having a relationship with them.
Any reasonably attractive woman who posts a profile online instantly gets DOZENS of responses... What does a woman usually do when she gets bombarded with emails? Not one to easily give up, I took matters into my own hands.
Typically, she'll start mass deleting the emails and unless your email contains SOMETHING that grabs her attention, yours gets deleted as well. But I was determined NOT to have to face the 'old-fashioned' way of meeting women again -- in clubs, bars, social events, etc. I decided to use a strategy that no one had ever used before... Because I'm a direct response marketer by profession, I decided to take a "scientific approach" to online dating.
I thought they were the answer to my miserable, dateless existence.[States 65% of their members are female] Women have a virtual buffet of men to choose from -- while men have to scramble for whatever scraps they can get.If you think women get hit on a lot at bars and clubs, man ..haven't seen anything... Without going out on too much of a limb, It's not uncommon for women to get 50-100 emails a DAY from just about every type of guy imaginable.For years, I constantly fine-tuned my emails, profiles and pictures to make them work better. Like which day of the week and time of day to email a woman to have the highest possible chance of her writing you back quickly. Having his Insider Internet Dating™ program is like taking millions of dollars worth of scientific research about women and hijacking it for your own purposes! I knew I couldn't keep wasting my time meeting these women and I had to figure something out. I came up with a SYSTEM to screen them to make sure that I wasn't wasting my time meeting women I wasn't physically or emotionally attracted to.” - David De Angelo, Double Your Dating After I figured that out, I began getting DOZENS of phone numbers (not just emails) a week from beautiful, single women. I needed to figure out exactly what I should say on the phone to get a woman to meet me in person ...during the FIRST phone conversation. When all was said and done I was convinced, without a doubt that... I followed the system and I've gone out on a date every night I've had free and I hooked up with all of them except for 2. lol) I have to shut my profile off for periods of time because I can't keep up with all the responses. I tell every guy I know to try this program because it works.My ego was not willing to take that kind of rejection again. You see, with every marketing campaign, 'testing' is absolutely essential in order to find out which elements of the campaign are working (so that you can do more of them), and which elements are not (so you can stop doing them).