I understand the temptation to believe that dating non-Christians is okay.In fact, I get why so many young women have been deceived into thinking that it is a potentially wonderful missions opportunity.As a young Christian girl, you should focus on Christ; focus on His call on your life to follow Him. You need to be content with serving and obeying Christ. As you seek the Lord and focus on Him, if you are to be married, the Lord will put the perfect man for you in your path.Seek to understand what that means for each one of you. You must not seek to find your fulfillment in a man. You should be able to see him in several different roles and know that you would be best yoked with that one man while on this earth.How you will give your time, money, and energy in service to the Lord?
Well, this really pretty girl and I made out a lot … There were some moments when we got far too close to a line that should not be crossed until marriage.
(I actually fell for this one myself as a high school and college-aged woman.) But since I now understand how important it is that we understand God’s truth on this subject, I decided to recruit a friend of mine to be a voice of reason. He just happens to be a handsome, funny college student who is currently serving as the youth ministry intern at my church. How do we convince them that they should only date Christians?
I asked him to read the parts of this blog where young women were talking about dating non-Christians. ” I think that Brice’s insights on this topic are wise and thought-provoking, and they may just be exactly what you need to hear as you search for truth in this area of your lives.
When you do meet that man someday that you connect really well with … Pray that he will grow and be transformed every day into the likeness of Christ.
Ask God now to prepare you and your future husband for the time when you will be wed.
I am now 22 years old, and I have had five different girlfriends over the years and had crushes on many others.