Dating guy with daughter

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That's HER time with her dad and you are in the way.

Leave your feelings out of it and don't make the mistake of putting pressure on him to defend you to her - you are only his girlfriend, not his new wife, and she should be his priority when they are together.

Okay, summary time: I think that pretty much sums it up for a lot of parents.

More than race, the issue in interracial dating tends to be about culture.

After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. He has a 17 year old daughter that I adore, and until yesterday I thought the feelings was mutual with her... I have an 18 year old who was 16 when my BF and I started dating. I just don't see how a child can try to control a parents love life, I respect her home and her things and her time alone with her dad...shouldn't she do the same?

She popped off " is_______ spending the night tonight, too? The only time the BF spent the night at my house when my son was home, was if there was some special circumstance where we got home after midnight or so. I can't tell from your post if you routinely spend the night at the house when the daughter is there and just don't sleep together, or you only stay over when she is not there. as I've never had to deal with this my parents have been married for 48 years... Are you sleeping over when she also sleeping there at the house? I think in 5 months months I've stayed there while she is there 3 times..I sleep in the extra bed room.

(*Trying not to laugh*)All right, this question amused me enough without offending me, so I'm going to take a stab at it.

The reality is that most Indian-American parents tend to avoid the issue all together, at least where it concerns their daughters. Asking my mom to buy pads for me in middle school was the most awkward thing ever.Leave your feelings out of it and don't make the mistake of putting pressure on him to defend you to her - you are only his girlfriend, not his new wife, and she should be his priority when they are together. Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. Over ,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. No you don't If you did, you'd leave and sleep at your own house when she sleeps over at his. I'm not in a popluarity contest with her over him, I would never dream of coming between anyone and their child, period. The truth is that I, like many other Indians my age, don't know a lot about them and who they are as social beings, aside from being my parents.The pressures Indian parents often place on their kids' shoulders may seem misguided to others, but there's a lot to the story and the subtleties of being Indian-American that most others will never know or see.I personally know at least two married Indian female-black male couples, and all the parents involved seem okay with it.

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