This suggests to me that OK Cupid may indeed be the best choice among dating sites for one-night-stand type hook-ups, since the girls are fucking the men and not having relationships with them. Enjoyability seems encompassed by "vibe" (in my theory above) whereas fuck-ability and maybe hotness-likelihood would be encompassed by "vampiness"? If any SW girl works at Follies, that's a unicorn if i ever saw one.Of course, the stats could bear out differently, but at least it isn't a direct contradiction ... I helped a guy set up a site like that in the late 90s. I had access to the messaging system and some of them started hitting each other up. She would get no help at all in how to make more money there and probably get chased off the site.I had a fuck buddy relationship with one girl I met off of Ok Cupid for a while, and I'm currently dating a cute little 20 year old nympho I met through there as well. Probably smoke too much reefer to be good in the sack. " If it wasn't for their live feeds with some attractive women getting naked giving some teaser shows, I'd say it was a total waste of my time and money getting involved when I did have a paid membership for a few months.
I have used online dating in the past and it can be useful if you use it correctly.
You will not achieve success unless you let go of these limiting thoughts. Eventually you will get the right formula and you will never run out of pussy. Unfortunately, if you continue to believe the way you believe and hang on to unproductive mindsets you are unnecessarily delaying the success that you are capable of otherwise enjoying.
You have to always understand that the only person that can hold you back in this world is yourself.
The members agreed to this in the fine print since the the site was for entertainment purposes only, but ofcourse the guys thought they were talking to real women. And SW has become a joke of a site (at least the stripper section) if it wasn't already with traffic probably a tiny fraction of what it once was, so no one probably actively (daily) follows that site, even strippers.
I suspect any paid hook up site would use similar tactics. I have heard from a LOT of younger female friends that they are VERY disappointed with the "kind of guys" that they met and then fucked at OK Cupid. I mean prospecting strippers are resorting to asking questions on TUSCL with more immediate, genuine and helpful responses, for crying out loud.
You say "buyers market for women" and that is mostly truth. There are plenty of new, less known sites where you can find different "rates" when it comes to male:female ratio. Plus I am getting strange emails from supposed random girls saying they saw me somewhere and want to hook up. My information was stolen twice, once by a south carolina hack and then by another and possibly by a third.