Then we had a weird/sad breakup that lasted about a year.We broke up and got back together a bunch of times, so I didn’t tell anyone we broke up until recently.Being cautious can go a long way in preventing injury. A friend of mine shared a story from one of her previous churches. Use a screen name that you do not use elsewhere (IM, Facebook, bank account, etc).
eharmony […] Read more Dear Sara: I was single for 10 years before I met my ex, and we were together for two years.They met, married, and had children with stellar men of God that honestly made me step back and ask, “How were these guys still single!? There is no background check verifying all members of Site A are top-quality men (or women for that matter). Tell people where you are going and what your plans are.I would consider myself a decent Christian woman who loves the Lord, so surely there could be decent Christian men on there as well, but not all of them are. Give them whatever information you have just in case.Forget about bars, dating clubs, or even meeting someone at your local library. Take five minutes to read our basic safety guildlines here.I want to be honest, but as someone in my 30s with little relationship history, I […] Read more Someone telling you that he or she is looking for a relationship isn’t the same thing as really and truly wanting one.