Whatever actions (or words) that point to ‘he’s not ready for a relationship’ it means….he’s not ready for a relationship.It doesn’t matter if there is one or twenty reasons why that is the case, the point is that he’s not, which means it’s time for you to move on. – He saw us as ‘fun’ ‘casual’ ‘cool’ ‘convenient’ but certainly not a ‘relationship’. Don’t make assumptions based on illusions and don’t spend extended time with someone pondering what your status is – it’s likely that it’s not much because you’re certainly not feeling it.A key sign that you’re with a Mr Unavailable or in a dubious relationship, is that things seem to go into reverse.
Most movie theaters do not sell alcohol so the temptation is left out.Most importantly, I love going on dates with my significant other. They don't need to consist of Netflix and falling asleep on the couch all the time (even though that does sound fun). This is something I did frequently as a teenager and I love bringing it back now that I'm sober.Whether you're newly sober, have been sober for years, or you're just looking for dates that don't include mind erasing moments with booze and drugs, this list is for you. There's nothing more fun than having a little healthy competition with your date.See who is the bowling master, who can throw more strikes, or who has to use the bumpers. It's public enough to be perfect for a first date, yet intimate enough that you'll be able to talk with your date.Just be sure to find a bowling alley that isn't filled with beer and smoke. Movie theater This also takes me back to my teen days.When your relationship has question marks all over it and they’re not being answered, and are possibly multiplying and you’re burning up brain energy wondering what ‘this’ all means, it is a red flag – either your mind is working overtime and you’re dramatising your relationship or the person is doing things that cause you to question who they are and what you’re involved in. I dated a guy several years ago who ended up being my epiphany guy/relationship because I looked at myself and my love habits in a totally different way that made me face my own contribution and it became nigh on impossible to go back to the Me Before Him. Until I told him to take a run and jump, I did not directly ask him any of these questions and I barely asked them indirectly.